Death is inextricably
connected with life. Perhaps you are confronted with death in
your private life. For example when you are – or someone
close is – confronted with a terminal disease. Or perhaps
you have recently lost someone close and now you are confronted
with a great loss and your own mortality. Or perhaps you have
– or someone close has – reached a stage in life
where the wish arises to end one’s own life.
Next to that one might
be confronted with death at work. Perhaps announcing terminal
diagnoses is part of your job. Perhaps you are working close
with terminal patients or clients and you experience difficulty
in talking with him or her about death. Perhaps you are witness
to difficulties in communication about death between one dying
and the ones close. Or perhaps you are confronted at work with
people who have the wish to end one’s own life.
In all these situations
it should be possible to be able to have an open and honest
conversation about life’s end. But talking about life’s
end isn’t easy. One might not know how to deal with it
which can lead to a situation where death is talked about in
an unclear and incomplete way. Or unpleasant feelings might
arise within yourself or the other. Or there is a lot of doubt
how people will react to the subject.
TGLE stands for The Good
Life’s End and doesn’t refer to thé good
life’s end that counts for everyone. The Good Life’s
End is focused on discovering what a good life’s end can
mean for an individual. Research has shown that there are similarities
between cultures in what constitutes a good death. But there
will always be unique individual differences. This doesn’t
make communicating about life’s end easier.
The Good Life’s
End Training is specialised in training in communication surrounding
life’s end. Important features of this communication are
formed by openness, clarity and carefulness. Towards others
as towards ones selves. By communicating with another the possibility
arises to stay in contact with another. Which is also important
at the end of life.